Feminine energy is open and pliable enough to allow him to come in – literally. We may want to protect ourselves with hard walls, but the thing about hard walls is nothing will get in. So you’re actually blocking the blessing that you want. Since we know everybody is dealing with their own issues in life, me included, although we don’t often consider the challenges that men have, let me clue you in: don’t assume that men or people in general have the time, energy or interest in beating down your walls just to be loved back.

In today’s world, most people are overwhelmed. juggling multiple balls of responsibilities as it is. So when it comes to a social life, a man is attracted to a woman who is pleasant, fun, open and adds enjoyment to his life. Not a hard case or project.

Now I know, this may not be what you want to hear from your Go-to-Girlfriend, but I have done the hard work of getting the truth from married, single and divorced men for you.  Trust me on this one.

Don’t be discouraged. We are just getting started. I promise there is a light at the end of the tunnel. In fact, I have created an entire series for you titled “The Man Whisperer,” a course where I will teach you about the art of communicating with men. Sign up for my newsletter at www.Deyadirect.net to learn more and get registered.

Best Selling Author, Producer and Relationship Expert Deya “Direct” Smith writes and produces commentary for your heart, mind and soul. She is also a producer for the Tom Joyner Morning Show, a motivational speaker, actress and social commentator and can be reached at www.Deyadirect.net.

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